Tripp sent this song to me in an email one day...I hadn't heard of it prior to this although, I am a fan of Plain White T's. I introduced him to them when I told him to go and have a listen to this:
Both songs are very fitting to what we want/need/have in our relationship...the first makes me a little teary eyed because I am, upon occasion, a romantical kind of a girl. He pays very close attention to the details of what makes up the who that is me and in doing so, he re-captures my heart over and over again. Some days, I think I could be in real trouble when this either ends, or I am forced to choose a definite path.
The second makes me smile...and although I know this is a 'from his' perspective kind of a song, this song never reminded me of anyone until I met Tripp and our relationship developed to what it is today.
We have been talking along a more serious bent as of late--discussing things like what it would be like if we were to move in together, what we would do if the others spouse confronted one of us (I already told him if she tried to hit me, I'd totally kick her ass, especially if she pulled my hair--he said that he wouldn't do anything to harm hubs because he is the father of my kids and he knows I love him, he'd just protect himself. He's a better person than I am, obviously.
I do my best not to get too terribly caught up in the 'what if' imaginings and daydreams of the life we would have together if it goes that route...its not something either of us are really working toward--but life is what it is...unpredictable. When I asked directly what he would do if his wife found out, he said he wasn't sure--that he'd have to see how she wanted to handle it,but he'd be in his kids life regardless. I answered the query back with the idea that I'd have ago at it alone for a while, since I never had before. We unanimously decided we'd continue to see each other regardless. It's nice to think about,but not so naive to realize its folly at its finest. Just sayin'.
As it is, we'll just continue as we have been...very much together, very much in love, and very aware of the thin line we walk.
Oh yeah--we're discussing starting a his-n-hers blog together...that should be fun. How about some title ideas?? Anyone?
I almost said "Tripping on Jane" but in hindsight I think that would be terrible :-P
ReplyDeleteLOL Ethan...I can't even begin to tell you how close to truth that title would be...I REALLY like the name though!! Thanks for playing along ;) Now, whats to be your prize should your suggestion be used? Hmm?
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